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The common culprits behind the rising gray divorce rate

On Behalf of | Apr 20, 2021 | Divorce |

Couples in Louisiana and other states who are over the age of 50 years old are starting to seek divorce more often than ever before. Termed “gray divorces,” these types of divorces have roughly doubled since the 1990s. This leads many people to question why divorces are becoming more common in the elderly population.

A different take on divorce

The stigma surrounding divorce 40 years ago is much different than it is today. Getting divorced in the past was rare. Nowadays, couples are more likely to call it quits when they realize that the relationship is not working for either one of them anymore. This general attitude toward divorce has allowed for a more relaxed social environment for older couples who simply do not get along with their spouse anymore.

Postponed divorces

It used to be a common marital agreement to stay unhappily married until the children grew up. Since couples knew of the necessity of a child having a good relationship with both parents, they believed it was easier just to stay in a marriage and postpone divorce until after the children left the nest. Now that many of these children have grown up and become adults, their parents are following through with their postponed divorce plans.

Longer life expectancies

As medical treatments advance and health care becomes better, people are living longer. Individuals in their 50s are realizing that they may have another good 20 or 30 years of being married before they die. Some of these individuals have decided that they don’t want to stay married to the same person for another lengthy period of time.

More elderly couples are taking advantage of the process of divorce than ever before. The above are just three of the most common reasons that older couples are considering divorce as a feasible option for their lifestyle. Individuals with questions about how a divorce might affect their life may want to talk to an attorney.